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5 Things / Unique Wisdom

What I know is that I have a hell of a lot of resilience and empathy because of my sexuality. It’s made me stronger and amplified my gifts and my messages. It’s given me unique wisdom.

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I’m a lesbian and yesterday was Lesbian Visibility Day. 👋🏻🏳️‍🌈Despite putting myself out there as a speaker and writer for years now, it took me a long time to figure out how I wanted to be in the world. What gender expression feels authentic? How to find the balance between being open and vulnerable while still protecting myself? But those are things many of us navigate.

What I know is that I have a hell of a lot of resilience and empathy because of my sexuality. It’s made me stronger and amplified my gifts and my messages. It’s given me unique wisdom.

But whatever your story is, whoever you are, gives you unique wisdom. Whatever the stories are of the people on your team, even of the people who annoy you, gives them all unique wisdom as well. It would be cool if we took a moment to be curious about each other’s unique wisdom, and the gifts they have from their experiences. The things they can teach us. It all starts with curiosity. My ARC (Ask-Respect-Connect) Method helps.

Here Are This Week's Good Vibes:

  1. PBS Kids Adds ASL to Six Shows

  2. Delta Continues to Invest in Employees

  3. Korean Company Uses Korean Names

  4. Retail/Grocery Employees to Have More Protections

  5. Dell Sees ERG Success

This Week’s Call to Action:

Join my next DEI Double Feature: The Belonging Buzzword. I’m hosting it with Michelle Silverthorn on May 8 and you can join right here!

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5 things / Tyler Perry

This week I learned how amazing of a human Tyler Perry is. In fact, I devoted two of my #1ThingILearnedToday videos to him. I learned on Monday that his new film/tv studio in Atlanta (situated on a former Confederate military base) is one of the largest in the country and is creating countless jobs for African-Americans -- and is the only African-American owned studio in the country. 

Later, I learned that the Tyler Perry Studios complex will have shelters and job training for homeless LGBTQ youth, victims of sex trafficking, and homeless women and girls. He is truly paying it forward.

Here are a few other positive things I learned this week

  • And finally, PBS does it again...Sesame Street's muppet, Karli, who is foster care, has a parent battling addiction. The storyline is told from Karli's perspective, unlike any other programming around addiction. It's a powerful way to be inclusive of the diversity of experiences that can affect kids.

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