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5 Things / Unique Wisdom

What I know is that I have a hell of a lot of resilience and empathy because of my sexuality. It’s made me stronger and amplified my gifts and my messages. It’s given me unique wisdom.

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I’m a lesbian and yesterday was Lesbian Visibility Day. 👋🏻🏳️‍🌈Despite putting myself out there as a speaker and writer for years now, it took me a long time to figure out how I wanted to be in the world. What gender expression feels authentic? How to find the balance between being open and vulnerable while still protecting myself? But those are things many of us navigate.

What I know is that I have a hell of a lot of resilience and empathy because of my sexuality. It’s made me stronger and amplified my gifts and my messages. It’s given me unique wisdom.

But whatever your story is, whoever you are, gives you unique wisdom. Whatever the stories are of the people on your team, even of the people who annoy you, gives them all unique wisdom as well. It would be cool if we took a moment to be curious about each other’s unique wisdom, and the gifts they have from their experiences. The things they can teach us. It all starts with curiosity. My ARC (Ask-Respect-Connect) Method helps.

Here Are This Week's Good Vibes:

  1. PBS Kids Adds ASL to Six Shows

  2. Delta Continues to Invest in Employees

  3. Korean Company Uses Korean Names

  4. Retail/Grocery Employees to Have More Protections

  5. Dell Sees ERG Success

This Week’s Call to Action:

Join my next DEI Double Feature: The Belonging Buzzword. I’m hosting it with Michelle Silverthorn on May 8 and you can join right here!

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5 Things / empower ERGs

One of the questions I enjoy speaking with organizations about is: "Do our policies or products exclude anyone?" Chances are, they inadvertently do. For those organizations with Employee Resource Groups (ERGs), consider the possibility that those groups may help unearth and solve these exclusions. 

Here's a great example: Equifax's (the credit reporting agency) LGBTQ ERG had a transgender guest speaker last year. The speaker shared that their credit score went down after transition because their great score was attached to their former name. Equifax thought they might be able to help solve this problem.

The ERG did some digging, figured out why this was happening (because first name changes with banks didn't automatically update with Equifax). While the ERG couldn't solve that problem specifically, it did craft detailed guidance for transgender customers to change their name within Equifax (even online) so that their credit score is accurate.

While the onus for change is still on transgender folks and that remains a problem, the Pride Network addressed an important inclusion gap that may improve the experience for members of their own community -- and they were empowered to do so. 

That's the key takeaway here: ERGs can be incredibly valuable to your business, but it starts with empowering them, giving them access to executives, and investing in leadership development.

Here are some other good vibes I found this week:

Image by: The Chamber of Commerce for Greater Philadelphia

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